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There are several aspects that are required to be considered and very important to be avoided in a relationship.
Relationship and Growth Mindset go hand in hand. It is utmost important to consider that there are some set of actions that instantly impede the growth of a relationship as well as individuals involved.
Few of the aspects to consider for enabling Growth mindset in a relationship:
Never blackmail and work in a way which takes away the profession of your life-partner. Irrespective of the gravity of the situation at hand, if you are getting joyous in loss of profession of your present or previous relationship - it is important to consider your conscience map first before pursuing another relationship
2. Blaming takes away the complete responsibility in a relationship. It is a vicious circle which leads to set of actions leading to downfall of mindset of both individuals in the longer term as well as mental health & well-being
3. There are some aspects of a serious relationship. And giving good amount of time, understanding as well as genuine concern strengthen these aspects of a serious relationship
4. There are two types of addictions. Positive and negative
The first question to ask yourself is to consider whether you get joyous on leading your life-partner towards negative addictions ?
Second question to consider is whether the negative addiction is very temporary in nature or is it going to be a long-term habit ?
Letting go of negative thoughts and addictions is one of the crucial ways to forge good relationships.
5. Credibility is one of the very important levers in a serious relationship. Instead of focusing on negatives of each other and bringing them out which affects each other’s credibility, it is important to consider the positives and bring out the best in each other. Having a good mindset and genuinely pursuing credibility of each other is one of the primary ways to let go of limiting mindset while forging genuine relationships enabled in growth mindset
6. Judgements are bound to happen in a relationship. Making them the core focus of a relationship and bringing them out again and again lead to downfall in a relationship
7. Getting in the cycle of revenge mindset and tit-for-tat is one of the worst measures in the short and long term for your relationship. When confronted with situations where your significant other is showcasing revenge for big or small differences, bring out the immediate need to let them go. It requires conscious decision making and awareness to let go of this
8. Comparing past relationships with present individual is one of the most detrimental ways of pursuing relationships. It creates long term struggle and instead of providing upgrade, it goes on to create backlashes in the short and long term
